Thursday, June 02, 2005

Daydreaming Again

I have always been a daydreamer. Yes, while sitting,standing,talking, any time of the day I start dreaming or just think something else and I get so engrossed that I completely forget whats around me. And these are not any princess dreams, but just recollecting what happened before or thinking about what might happen if I do such and such a thing. But tuesday's experience left me embrassed and the rest amused. In the status meeting, there was a discussion on some technical issue which wasn't related to my project and wasn't interesting. And me, well I was wondering will I ever make it as a good manager. Will the employees listen to me? Having a bad temper, what if I punched people who didnt listen?! Then my attention shifted to a tree I could see through the window, wondering how old the tree might be, what if I lived that long and I had to stand in the same place for life!! And then my manager called my name. Before I could realize what was happening he shot a question at me, "what is your opinion on this? ".I shook my head and said I agree with T. Everyone looked at me in bewilderment. Then my manager calmly said "T has not given his opinion yet". All I had left to say was sorry and looked at the slide on the projected screen, commented something stupid and continued taking minutes. The end of the day, I had the most embrassing moment in recent times.

19 comments:

bgood said...

Are you a gemini by any chance? My wife used to do the same things :) She used to think of that after and before action stuff and also she used to think if she can be a good manager :)

bgood said...

Oops. I am a first timer and i haven't read your profile before posting a comment asking if you were a gemini.

Unknown said...

@nep- your wife doesnt do it anymore? How did she stop? I want tips, not that I want to get rid of this habit but atleast not daydream in meetings :)

Raju PP said...

hahaha... this is funny n yeah, embarassing as well :D :D
i too daydream in meetings n presentations, but the only difference is i will be seeing the projector screen n not out of the window... lol

Keshav said...

I have a better solution to this! Sleep shamelessly in meetings, that's what one of my team mate does and no one bothers to wake him up for his opinion!

Not to mention, even I try it sometimes!
;)

Anonymous said...

You are weird and a crazy girl. I'm also kinda like you, but had never come across another girl like myself.Good blog. I have thought about starting one, lot of times, but this where we both differ, b'coz I cant blog ;-)

M

Unknown said...

hey what is this thing against geminis eh ;) ?? On second thoughts geminis actually are really great day dreamers. Maybe becoz their attention span is too short :) Thats why I think I have started to doze off even in 1 to 1 meetings :))

i-me-myself said...

:)) Deepthi..man, what a situation! But honestly, sometimes these meetings can be totally pointless when they aren't relevant enough to you, or when you don't carry away anything useful. At meetings like these, i'm usually so irritable and aware of all the work waiting at my desk, that the fury keeps me alert. Try it sometime :)

Krish said...

oh...u poor gal :)) these things happen..don't worry..

Anonymous said...

Now I know what you were thinking about that day !
Day dreamers are never good managers right ?

Anonymous said...

Hey Day Dreamer…

Few years back when I returned home for my vacations and jus one week was left to go back to college, I met with an accident .The result was a splintered hand and a painful impeded walk. All the people I met in those six weeks asked the only question like a 24/7 news channel wats wrong and the answer was… met with an accident. Next question was obviously how and now used to start my embarrassment when I used to say…

I was thinking of something while waiting for the signal to go green though I started to move with the traffic but was still in my thoughts n so couldn’t see a cow crossing the road and my kinetic hit the poor animal that too on its BACKSIDE the moment I used to give this update of my accident especially smashing on the BAKYARD of a cow everybody used to start laughing saying that how could I do that.

Believe me those six weeks were one the most embarrassing ones of my life…and the hit was so tough that I couldn’t even remember what I was thinking of as if I have lost my memory for those few minutes.

Just hoping that the cow was alrite.

Unknown said...

Ms M, I'll take it as a compliment ;) thank you.

Thanks busy-be for the tip, I'll try it next time, but not Keshav's tips.

Mr.Manager, you will never know what I think about ;)

@anonymous2, one of my family members had a similar incident, but not serious one though, so I certainly get an idea of how embrassing it would be.

Anonymous said...

The next time I see you in a serious thought, well I know how serious it is !!
!!Beware!!

Anonymous said...

hellooooo - stop daydreaming and start posting more regularly. thse ppl in love cant stop daydreaming :P

Joviel said...

You are sooo aquarian ... Must missed it by a few days I guess or borderline case ;))

Raju PP said...

long time ... no updates :-?

Raju PP said...

daydreaming again???!!!! :-p

Unknown said...

I'm on a break.There is so many things happening in my life and its so hard not to blog them, coz they are too personal.I will be back ASAP.Thank you guys for the reminders :) I'll be back :D

@apps- I'm a piscean and our main trait is daydreaming.Its in our character ;) but I dont know much abt aquarians, can you please tell me how I qualify as one too :D

Anonymous said...

What is happening? Did you finally find some special friend ;) I hope you have, coz dear you have been alone for a long time.